Tuesday, July 15, 2008

A Tribute to our Loving Dog Lady



I haven't blogged for a little while because I'm trying to get my emotions in check, I've been having a hard time with some things and the main thing that I've been thinking about is the life of my sweet dog Lady. Lady turned 12 years old last month on June 18th and that's pretty good for a dalmation. Lady was diagnosed with kidney disease 2 and 1/2 years ago and was given a maximum of 1 year to live. My wonderful mom made sure that that dog had the right kind of food and the right vitamins to help sustain her life for as long as possible. Lady has recently gone blind and she has a hard time walking. In the last month, she hasn't been able to keep much in her system and they warned us that when this happened that the end was near. As a family we've struggled and fought the decision to put her out of her misery. She's been such a great part of our life that we didn't want to have to make that decision whether to end her life. After much thought, and prayers asking Heavenly Father to just take her in her sleep, we finally decided that there was no need for her to suffer any longer. On July 15th, 2008, she peacefully fell asleep for the last time. My dad and brother were with her and they said it was a very peaceful experience. She was so tired and she was to the point where she couldn't walk to get outside without collapsing many times or walking into walls.

Lady was one of the sweetest dogs in the whole world and she wasn't even supposed to be in our family. 12 summers ago at this time we lost another pet Bandit, who was sick and had to be put down. My parents claimed that we would never have another dog. My brother's friend had puppies and he asked my mom to come and see them with him, so she went and saw them. I went to youth conference for a few days and when I came home, I walked in the door and there was a pile of dog poop on the floor and I knew that my mom had caved. I'll never forget going into the backyard and seeing that dalmation puppy sitting in the dog house wagging her tail. She was there for me through so much in my life. She never left my side after having 2 surgeries in high school or anytime I was sick. She would lay by my bed and if I went anywhere she would follow and wait for me. She stayed by my side through many heartbreaks. She was there when a friend's dog tried to play with me and jumped on me and she got in between us and growled at the other dog (that was the only time I have ever seen her growl at another dog). When the grandkids were babies she would stay by there side when they cried, laying by their cribs, or laying outside of the closed bedroom door where they were. She was such a gentle dog.

Lady was very active and loved to play. You couldn't say frisbee, walk or leash without her getting all excited to go out and play. She was so good and obeyed every command when you would take her out.

Later into life, Lady's territory got invaded by another pet. I bought Cosmo 2 months before Lady was diagnosed with kidney disease. At that time, Lady slept in my room instead of in her own bed. She loved being in the company of people, it comforted her. When I brought Cosmo home, she would have nothing to do with my room for 3 days. She wouldn't come near it and wouldn't even sniff Cosmo. As Cosmo grew older, he naturally wanted her as a playmate and he would egg her on until she would cave and play with him. Cosmo lived for these moments when she would play. There were times when Lady would playfully open her mouth and put it over Cosmo's head, his cute little head could fit in her mouth but she never hurt him. Cosmo had this thing with chewing on her ears and she would let him. Lady was so much more active after Cosmo came along and we believe that it prolonged her life to have a friend. As Lady got sicker, Cosmo took care of her, he would go and visit her in her bed everyday and clean her, he would kiss her all over, trying to make her feel better. Every once in a while Lady would get up and get into a pouncing position and Cosmo would run up and down the hall and loop around her and down and up the hall again, pouncing on her, to try and egg her on. Sometimes we would be downstairs watching a movie and you could hear running up and down the hall as they chased each other back and forth. I'm going to miss that and I know Cosmo will too. As they took Lady today, my mom said that everyone was crying and Cosmo just wailed as they took Lady away. I think he knew what was going on and I hope that he will be ok without his best friend.

Lady was our pet, friend, protector, comforter, playmate, companion, and one of our family. She will be so missed but we know that her spirit is still alive and that she is running and can see again. We will miss her so much. We love you Lady, thanks for being such a great dog!

8 comments:

Laurel said...

I thought it was going to be tomorrow. I'm so sorry. What a sweet tribute and as a not-so-much-a-pet person, a VERY sweet dog. (that time I had to watch her while you guys were in CA and she wouldn't come in at 2:00 in the morning notwithstanding...grin. I actually was attached to her myself.
You guys have been a GREAT family for her!!

Kenzie said...

I'm trying not to cry again..... I was at my friend's house when my mom called me and told me... and I burst out crying. I remember when I used to be afraid of Lady. How could I ever?! She was the sweetest dog in the world and I love her. Thanks for posting the pictures, I needed to see her one more time :'(
Love you lots
Kenzie

destiny808 said...

Steph I am so sorry, this makes me so sad... She was so good with my kids when we were over... I love ya and mt heart goes out...
Love ya Amber

Jimmy & Michelle said...

I had a good cry last night after I got the kids to bed. Her spirit was an especially sweet one, and she connected with everyone. GREAT tribute, by the way. I'll have to take Murphy over to play with Cosmo a bunch. See you this weekend--love ya!

Jimmy&Michelle said...

ha ha I just realized I posted as "daddy"----woops!

Sandra said...

Sorry about your loss. She sounded like a great dog!

Kerri and Cody said...

I'm so sorry for your loss.. she's a beautiful dog. One of my sister-in-laws is in town with her dog, also named Lady (not a dalmatian but a spaniel. She's also covered in spots, though.) We've become pretty fond of her in just a couple of weeks, so I can only imagine your loss and sadness after 12 years! :(
I've been going through a similar situation as well; it's hard to see those you love deteriorate physically. (My grandma passed away just a week and a half ago.. and the last few days were so sad to see her suffer the way she was, to the point I felt such peace when she passed. (Still sad.. but I hated seeing her in pain!) You gave a beautiful tribute to a beautiful friend (and family member!) of yours.

*(and on a complete different side note and tone... I really like your new background!)

SD and EJ said...

That seriously made me cry! I completely understand how you can love a dog so much. My dog is my very, very best friend. The vet just told my mom a couple weeks ago that she thinks he has about 6 more months to live and then his back legs will be completely paralyzed and he won't even be able to move and we'll have to put him to sleep. I still cry about it and I am so dreading that day! I am so sorry and I'm so glad you have Cosmo now!